Henry Higgins, you have the desired - but women are more like men

"Why not let more people want?

Music, Fair Lady made my first 1956. In Professor Henry Higgins complains that women are irrational, they can not use their heads. He wonders "why they can not grow up like their father instead. ? Then in verse, he asked bitterly,.

"Why some women never think to do.
Reason why not even try?
Straightening up their hair is all they ever do.
Why they do not meet the regulations within?

Professor Higgins well over half a century later, you want your air. Women are more like men. We have to meet regulations in our heads. Now we're thinking and reasoning.

In 21 century we have the most unique and different in many professional glass ceiling. In fact, we are more like men, we now work 60 hours a week, and growth as well as appendages of Blackberries and IPods.

Only one way to Professor Higgins, he has to. Fighting women to eliminate the hips, curves, we double meat - body model after normal young men. We take time to develop arms and legs gyms contoured. We put the right to work.

We even put the world of human health problems. As the disease attacks the heart of a man they now make a major women's lives.

This news is not that; More women as employees in these areas will be known. But the surprise here: two areas that have hit the Higgins' is the nature of communication and friendship.

Women communicate.
Communication is set for 1,990 words of Deborah from the tannin of you just do not understand.'s Research she spelled out what we know - men and women have different styles of communication. Stylish women. more interactive than men. We support each head attentive nods, comment. We share stories to tell us to understand and monitor are different.

Janice and Cora as a favorite lunching at restaurants. Shares were Janice stressful these past few months to care for her elderly mother's way. Cora listening closely making direct eye contact. A term she murmurs sympathetically "uh huh Uh". and "oh, dear" and "That's hard to not have any.

Cora shares the story of her own stressful. Janice understands this to her, Janice, will not feel like one.

The exchange will differ between most people as they communicate what we see for women is parallel Talk. Each person's comments and say they do not need to show a link between two topics. Do not look directly. the same and they do not need to identify the head or oral hearing, and their satisfaction. but they feel heard together.

One style is not better than the other bad. They are just different.

In 1992 people from Mars and women from Venus erupted in American life. Today, most people may know that women and women want sympathy when they have problems in men, while the solution.

But in a few years ago in my office and among my friends I found a shift. Form of communication of women will change. Mars and Venus do not have patience to women now have many solutions that do not. desire and satisfaction, they often forget.

61 year old woman recently shared with me about this. She has been diagnosed with osteoporosis and to tell her best friend Joyce about her symptoms, treatment and prognosis.

"I start by mentioning my hip and back pain. But before I added that she should contact her doctor and she would like to submit my article about her bone density scan.

"I was disappointed, but thank her. Then what I was trying to say - how mortified I thought my bones deteriorating. Joyce jumped by 'Yup. That is what I hate about the middle. Wake me up every day with pain. My back and legs. ' ".

Ellen shuddered as she recalled her disappointment.

Henry Higgins, you win this one.

Female friendship.
Friends are important to women's emotional life. But the ghost of Henry's question here with the seizure or not.

Is our success in the world of work for a drug is difficult to extract ourselves to friendship with our friends in the risk of playing second weakness in our work or not.

How often you end the day with good friends that women "to do again" and then open your appointment book, you see a convenient time to share not three or six weeks.

We are not to be our friend, we do not put them all day. We work more hours and later are less likely to hang every few days. In my study shows that women of female friendship. very recently managed to talk with friends the best of them all a few weeks. We may be feeling the pull between choosing between dinner with friends or business contacts.

If you suspect anything unusual about any of these products you will definitely want the success of Henry.

The best of both worlds.
Women are certainly benefit from more people make such a good location for us, financial, skills and appreciation of the use, impact on the business world.

Ask a word, but women can succeed in the world, while human is unique, we are women. Steal a phrase from the song My Fair Lady "with a little bit of luck," answers to reflection Yes. But equally resounding.

To break into the world of working men and women will be more than men want to play our unique women. We worked long and hard to put feelings and our families back burners. We can talk and play by the rules man. ; We wear the less women.

Now that we have made successful business women have started using their power of human differences. Styles of women leaders about creating a win win environment and work together. Women aims to support. than the main competition will see the bad.

We have obligations to young women who come after us to work as the best of what we have learned about making the world what people with a unique and special about the women. May be because we have made. hold to our special features, including style, communication and valuing our friendship.

No Henry Higgins. We do not want to be like people. To sell ourselves short too.

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Dr. Karen Gail Lew is married and family therapist with offices in more than 38 years, Cincinnati, Ohio and Washington, DC. She also rework RETREATS for women. She is the author of numerous books and ebooks, as well or not. Solid marriage for men and secret. For more information, contact her at 513-542-0646 or 513-542-0646 DrKarenGailLewis.com.

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